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This enactment amends
the Divorce Act to introduce a new approach to parenting
arrangements, based on “parental responsibilities”.
Rather than making custody and access orders, the court will make
“parenting orders”. The “parenting orders”
may allocate “parenting time” as well as decision-making
responsibilities regarding the child’s health care, education,
religion and other matters. The court will also be able to make
“contact orders” governing contact between the child
and persons other than the spouses. Both types of orders are based
on the “best interests of the child”. The “best
interests of the child” are determined in the light of a non-exhaustive
list of criteria that the court must consider.
The
often hurtful language of “custody” vs. “taking
out rights”, which often made “non-custodial”
parents feel relegated to second class status, will be eliminated.
This does not mean that “joint custody” becomes the
new religion to determine the welfare of children! Eliminating one
kind of dogma to replace it with a “new” dogma would
be just as harmful for children. “Parenting plans” should
be formulated to bring out the best in all parents, whatever their
sex and without regard to traditional biases about what roles mothers
or fathers “should” fulfill. A child deserves to have
both parents make their maximum efforts to fulfill their responsibilities.
We have certainly come a far way from fathers being relegated to
“Sunday daddies” and mothers having all the burden of
child care!
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